What I used to think about Lent –
I used to view Lent simply as a time when people gave something up and Catholics ate fish on Fridays. I found the special services—Ash Wednesday, Maundy Thursday, and Good Friday—moving experiences, but that was the extent of Lent’s meaningfulness to me.
That all changed about 20 years ago when I asked myself: What if I took on something during Lent?
The first year, I decluttered by removing 40 bags in 40 days of items we didn’t need. This was profound. My relationship with possessions shifted. I realized how much everything you own also owns a piece of you. Since then, I’ve explored various disciplines: praying for an hour daily, memorizing the Sermon on the Mount, crocheting hats for cancer patients, and performing random acts of kindness.
I wish someone had told me how powerful 40 days of a simple commitment can be. For example, two years ago, I began a daily lovingkindness meditation in my backyard, praying for four groups: people I love, people I struggle with, acquaintances, and myself. Surprisingly, praying for acquaintances became the game-changer.
I chose to pray for the workers at Smoothie King whom I see almost every morning. This transformed our interactions—first, I paid more attention to how they were. Then came compliments and gratitude. Quick hellos evolved into meaningful connections. One worker helped with our Scout Sunday food collection and as I am writing this I am waiting for her to pop by my office. We’re starting a community garden together with two other employees from the store.
What I now know about Lent
This ten-minute daily commitment has changed how I engage people. I’ve developed connections with people I would have previously overlooked. God has opened my eyes to those around me and made my heart more responsive. Most importantly, these people feel seen, loved, and appreciated. I am now a more engaged and loving person in my interactions.
Other disciplines can be equally transformative in different ways. For example, meditating on a devotional classic like “The Imitation of Christ” can bring Jesus to life anew. Using a simple Bible study technique daily can reveal deep truths and enhance your understanding of God’s word.
To help you select a discipline, I’ve created a page full of free downloadable ideas. There are multiple options for study, prayer, and action. Most require just minutes daily, yet all can be transformative. Access them at https://fpcrogers/lent2025
No one told me how transformative Lent could be, but now you know. Don’t waste this opportunity. Select a discipline today. Even the smallest action taken repeatedly can create huge change.
Blessings on your Lenten journey,
Rev. John Arnold
PS: Another great Lenten option is joining our online Lenten study of The Workbook of Living Prayer. This six-week online prayer class offers daily readings and exercises to help you prayer more frequently and connect more deeply with God. You can register for The Workbook of Living Prayer class by CLICKING HERE.